Have you ever noticed that the minute you start shopping around for a new car, you see that car EVERYWHERE?! Right now, look around the room you are in and see all the things that are blue. Now, tell me... while you were looking for blue, how many yellow things did you see? When you focus your attention on something, that is all you can see. For 34yrs of my life, I was looking for proof of the stories I was carrying around that told me that 'you don't matter' and that 'you do